It is not complete, its is the thing that pop out from my mind after what i had been through all my life till the things that happen to me recently. I will enhance it or change it according to my belief...so the next time you look at this i might add more thing worth to think about.
Human are so special. God created us with the ability to infinitely think and act. Some are with wealth, or maybe looks, talent or intelligent. Some are with courage, bravery and determination, and some are with patient, personality and good faith. Everyone has their own characteristic, their own nature, their own talent, their own challenge, their own culture and their own heaven.
Some might think that others had the advantage of the fortune, talent or good looks. Think again; Great power comes with great responsibility. Have you ever wonder that this power is equally destructive the opposite way around? For example, if you are a pretty girl, it’s great that god given you the confident and power to attract others, but have you ever think that this power will also be so dangerous compared to the less fortunate one? This power will give her the drive to possibly do the bad things that she might not do it if she were shy or less attractive, for example pornography. How about someone with huge fortune? He has the power to self destruct himself into a spoil ignorant who only live in his own world with his animal instinct ignoring the important things happen around him or he might chose to contribute to humanity and bring happiness to others who are less fortunate. Think some more and soon you will realize that god is the fairest.
To me we are all the same but each of us has our own scenario to solve, always seek for god help so your heart is calm which give the focus to the mind so you can solve it as best, as rational as possible with our limit.
I believe that we should not respect a person more because of what they got or who they are, but we should respect them of how they use their god given ability, power and fortune and also their contribution. Never forget that we should respect everyone as a person either he is bad or good or anything. We never know what they had been through and what is their own nature or surrounding so never underestimate and judge anyone too early because everyone has their own agenda and is ever-changing and their perspective always differ times to times as they grow older.
We all should be glad and always thanks god that we are what we are, still living and breathing with our beautiful mind and strength. We still have our opportunity to bring goods and colors to the humanity. We still have the opportunity to better our self and be useful as a person.
I believe that friends and family that we have is not random but divine. They are the one, who are connected in our life. As we grow older, the wing gets be bigger and we should always appreciate each of them for being who they are in our life. These are the people who teach us intentionally and unintentionally and shaped us the person we are today. You will never know the future, so it’s better to have no fiend but lots of friend.
I just want to remind you backstabbing is a selfish act and cruelty that should be ashamed of to the one who committing. Friends are someone who you trust and trust back. Making them felt in no mans land is really eliminate their trust for you and asking for more disaster, you should never ever backstabbing.
We human always do mistake and we learn and we may be stubborn sometime. Some are with narrow minded, some are widened. Some are with soft heart, some are with closed heart. Some are listener, some are ignorant. That should never stop us to treat everyone as best as we could. You should always try to understand others; this is because we are all different but we all can always change and be a better person. For some, god give them the good combination of mind and soul to think at a large scope and ahead which others can't see, appreciate it, share it and use it to teach others who are less fortunate with their nature and make them think.
When it come to argument, everyone has their own limit and if it broken, MADNESS. It's nature so try to understand it and think as open as you can if these madness happen. Its is the unbalance act cause by anger, so you should never judge someone when they are insane.
We are all human after all and never stop from making mistake. I myself am far from perfect. Everyday I committed sin and darker than what I want people to perceive me. Its nature, we all have ‘nafsu’ but it’s never too late to ask for forgiveness. So that’s why we pray everyday. Yeah I know, it’s really hard to make a perfect 5 each day, even 1 (xP) Make an effort and always feel a shame if you fail to do so. Just feeling uneasy for not praying is a good start. Insyallah it will get better when you grow older, I myself am struggling(lagi-lagi era kegemilangan nih xP) . Always wish to god for yourself, you parents, your family, friends and enemy for the best of his protection, even if they are non-muslin. I swear to you its work, I have faith in it. Your life will be smoother with his protection I swear to you.
All my life I thanks god that I had seen some unforgettable sign which shows the existent of him. I’m glad that I was brought out from a faithful family and I found happiness in this…Allhamdullilah…syukur…
Islam is my boundary and my home, and i feel safe and found happiness being inside it.
Peace be upon you all and thank you for reading till the end ;)
Your opinion are always welcome...
Ahmad Dhameer Abbas(c)2009
